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to help you better engage your team in the activities that lead to higher performance.
CORE Bites Issue #80
(June 23, 2020)
I have long been a believer that behaviors speak the truth—that what people DO speaks volumes about who they are; their values; their principles; their moral compass.
What people DO isn't some random act. People make choices about their actions, words and attitudes by comparing and contrasting the INPUTS (their contextual perceptions of the situation) with their VABEs (their values, assumptions, beliefs, and expectations). Each choice they make is selected from a spectrum of choices, constructed by the rational/emotional mind, based on forecasts of possible reaction(s) and possible consequence(s). You—as this person's manager—may observe the manifestation of this behavioral 'choice' as normal (and expected), or as a little odd (given the circumstances) or, possibly, completely irrational.
This is the fascinating part of human behavior. A behavior doesn't have to make sense to you ... but it will always make sense to the person exhibiting the behavior—at least up to the point of doing the selected behavior. (This is why most people have had situations after saying or doing something when they've asked themselves “What was I thinking?” )
The topic of this week's issue is accountability, specifically the 4-D's we've come to associate with someone who has low or no accountability: Defend, Deflect, Deny, and Disengage. The behavioral drivers behind an individual choosing one (or all) of these behaviors—especially in a workplace setting—is much more complex than we will have time to address today. However, knowing that these unproductive behaviors actually do make sense to the individual, I encourage you to hit the 'pause' button, and be curious, rather than bite the hook and react immediately (even if that's what would feel right). The power of a good question or a good positioning statement may help unravel the mystery of the behavioral choice being made, and, ultimately, assist you in navigating through this potential minefield.
In my experience, it's rarely effective to directly criticize someone for not being accountable or for not taking responsibility for their actions. Quite the opposite. Instead, they're likely to evoke some variation on the 4-D's listed above. This week (starting today), try out the '4-D Defeating' HVAs below:
Creating a Culture of Accountability isn’t easy, but it will make a significant impact on your leadership and business results. Use these HVAs to streamline the accountability process and make it an everyday part of your leadership approach.
I'd love to hear how these HVAs work for you!
Neil Dempster, PhD, MBA
RESULTant™ and Behavioral Engineer
"It is not only what we do, but also what we do not do, for which we are accountable."
— Moliere —